– A wife must guard against judging her husband because he does not respond like she would respond.
– A husband must guard against judging his wife because she does not respond like he would respond.

What if a wife thinks she is respectful, but her husband says she is disrespectful?
What if a husband thinks he is loving, but his wife says he isn’t loving?
What then?
via Understanding Your Motivation in Your Marriage, Part 1: Naming and Blaming | Love and Respect.